It's HARD to lose weight.
It's HARD to maintain weight loss.
You just have to pick your hard!
"Well, I've just checked, and as of April 4th, I've been a member of Spark people for over two years now. What has changed?
I've lost nearly 40 pounds so far, most of it in the first 7 months with Spark people. Then, I maintained that weight loss through about 7 different major life stressors (ended an engagement, quit a job, moved, death in family, serious illness in family, moved again, started new job). It's been an interesting year or two.
What helped?
My new good habits that Spark people taught me.
1. Start small. Every little bit counts (both in exercise and in nutrition).
2. Track everything. This helps you control what you can, while forcing you to realize what you can't control.
3. Develop good habits and it's harder to be derailed. If you're consistently tracking everything, it's easier to see that occasional off moments don't have to mean sliding completely off track. Just because I overate at one meal doesn't mean I've "blown it" and might as well take the rest of the week off. Tracking shows that all it really means is that you can start fresh the next day, or the next meal.
4. Take it one choice at a time. When I started, I didn't even know what I didn't know. Looking at my life now, I've changed in so many ways that it would take a LONG essay to even list them all. None of it happened overnight; all of it happened one choice at a time.
5. Be gentle with yourself. You can only do your best. Some days your best isn't as good as it is other days. Realizing that this is ok, and that it's a natural cycle has made such a difference. As I've learned to be more forgiving of myself, I've found my manner towards others also becoming more gentle. I like who I'm becoming.
6. Sharing with others really helps. It's scary to ask for help sometimes, and it can even be really intimidating to realize you need help. The positive community of all the Sparkers has really made a difference to me. I know that many times, logging on and chatting with team members made a difference. The accountability factor can be incredible. Most impressive? In my darkest night, when I was ready to throw in the towel completely, feeling that if I couldn't track everything every day then I should probably just quit and try again once my life settled down, I posted on the "Help!" thread. Almost immediately, two strangers took me to task in the most loving way possible, and called me on my behavior. Just because I couldn't do everything perfectly didn't mean I had to give up. Such a valuable lesson, and delivered at just the right moment. (I kept tracking as I could, despite my crazy travel schedule, and now I'm delighted to realize that I can estimate fairly accurately how much I've eaten. This, for a non-mathematical English major, is a substantial accomplishment, and one I would never even have aimed for otherwise!)
7. Scaffolding really works! The idea is that you can take success in one area and use it to build success in other areas as well. For example, my new awareness of nutrition in the grocery store has led to greater awareness of cost, which has led to better budgeting than ever before. Learning how to break down huge goals, such as "lose weight," into manageable chunks has helped me to begin breaking down another huge goal, "keep a tidier house." It all ties together!
So, on my second anniversary, Sparkpeople, I just wanted to thank you again for saving my life. My habits are much healthier and I've learned how to succeed. I'm lighter in body, stronger, and more able to tackle everyday challenges. I'm happier and more able to choose my happiness. I'm even a nicer person.
Thank you. I look forward to seeing what the next two years bring!"
-Tango
The Core Plan controls calories by focusing on a core list of wholesome, nutritious foods without tracking or counting. The list includes foods from all the food groups -- fruits and vegetables, grains and starches, lean meats, fish and poultry, eggs and dairy products -- to ensure that all nutritional requirements are met. People can also have occasional treats in controlled amounts on the Core Plan.
More Satisfaction, Fewer Calories
The Core Foods List was created to provide maximum eating satisfaction without empty calories. It emphasizes foods that have low-energy density, or few calories per unit volume.
"One of the key things scientific research has shown is that from a very young age, people are trained to eat a volume of food, not a certain amount of calories.
"To lose weight, people should eat foods that have low-energy density, that is, foods that are high in volume, but low in calories," said Weight Watchers Chief Scientific Officer, Karen Miller-Kovach.
"We also identified foods that are linked with overeating and removed them from the Core List. Once the Core Plan was developed, we tested it until we were convinced it allowed people to achieve healthy, effective weight loss, with no counting or tracking.
To learn more about Weight Watchers services, products and publications, visit WeightWatchers.com. To find the nearest Weight Watchers meeting location, call 1-800-651-6000 or click on the Find a Meeting link at the top of the homepage. Weight Watchers offers subscriptions for people wanting to follow Weight Watchers online.
This article was adapted from a news release provided by WeightWatchers.com.
The essence of the core plan, for those who aren't familiar with it, is that you can eat as much of the following foods as you wish (as long as you don't stuff yourself), while following some basic "good health guidelines", (which require you have a certain minimum daily intake of water, fruits and vegetables, dairy, and 2 tsp of "healthy oils" --olive, canola, flaxseed oil. Also, a multi-vitamin)
Here's the list of "allowed" foods:
~lean meats, fish, poultry
~nonfat dairy products, eggs
~whole grains (not whole grain products, just the whole grains themselves)
~sweet potatoes, potatoes, whole wheat pasta, brown rice
~beans and legumes, tofu
~more or less all fresh, frozen, or canned fruits or vegetables as long as they aren't in syrup(but not juices or dried fruits/veggies)
~coffee, tea
~most condiments (I've interpreted "most" as "all") and all herbs and spices, of course
"Limited" foods are:
~"healthy fats" 2 tsp required per day
~potatoes OR brown rice OR whole wheat pasta limited to one meal per day
Also, you get 35 extra "points" per week (more if you exercise) to spend on "non-core" foods at your discretion, if you want an occasional pat of butter, or a glass of wine or bump up your dairy from "non-fat" to "low-fat", etc.
"Most physicians and, I believe many of our patients, find the challenges of dealing with obesity overwhelming. Sadly, approximately 127 million adults in the US are overweight. Of those, 60 million are obese, and 9 million are severely obese. As the entire population of the US is just under 300 million, over half of all Americans weigh too much! When looking at the adult population over 20, the figures are even more disconcerting with just under 65% overweight or obese.
One common response is to go on a "diet." For most people, this implies an attempt to abruptly change one's eating habits and/or exercise patterns, often all at once and at great expense. Americans spend more than $33 billion annually on weight loss products (books, programs, pills, etc.).
The sad fact is that while some of these may yield impressive results in the near term, virtually all of the people who experience that first flush of success gain back all of the weight they lost within one year. Maintaining the needed discipline is just too hard for most people. In addition to the frustration that failure can bring is the accumulation of all of the weight loss stuff that you bought. They seem to end up in the trash or some dark corner in the cupboard. The equipment is stored only to emerge again at some future yard sale.
While I understand the desire for people to want to quickly lose weight, the reality is that just doesn't make sense. There is not one obese person in the world who went to bed one night thin and svelte and awoke the next morning to find themselves grossly overweight. If we didn't put the weight on overnight, why do we think that we can lose it that fast? Besides being unrealistic, it is also unhealthy and creates a cycle of failed attempts that result in profound discouragement.
My hope is that people would focus on the development of a healthy lifestyle as opposed to losing weight. If getting healthier is what you really want, you will lose weight as a byproduct. This means making small and sustainable changes that you can weave into your daily routine over time. It also is an opportunity to create a pattern of small and sustainable successes that build confidence through progress instead of undermining it.
I will list just a few things that you can do that will make a difference. Pick just one, and to start with, pick the one that will be the easiest for you.
1. Make an appointment to see your doctor for a brief physical exam to look for high blood pressure, diabetes, and elevated cholesterol as well as to get an accurate baseline weight and some initial counseling.
2. Have a healthy breakfast every day. People who skip breakfast often snack throughout the morning and are likely to eat a much larger lunch, thereby actually increasing their calorie intake.
3. Look carefully at the beverages you drink. Many people wrongly think that fruit juices are a useful when trying to lose weight, when in fact they are sources of extra calories. The same is true for sweetened ice teas and some "athletic" drinks. Water or diet sodas are preferable.
4. "Sneak in" some exercise. Stairs instead of the elevator, a daily walk after a meal or parking further from the door are all easy ways to begin.5. Moderate your alcohol intake. One glass of wine or one bottle of beer per day is more than enough.
6. Slow down your eating - you will develop a sense of fullness that can reduce the amount that you eat.
In addition, weigh yourself no more than once per week and always at the same time. Don't get upset with yourself if you fail once in awhile - just keep going!! There are many more first steps out there - check out the website of the American Obesity Association for other ideas and strategies."
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(Health, February 2008) For the next six weeks, follow these six simple guidelines.The Workout
For the next six weeks, you can create any meals you like as long as you follow these six simple guideline. That’s all—there’s no need to count calories or fat grams.
1. Eat protein and fruit and/or vegetables at every meal.
To supply all the amino acids you need to maximize muscle tone, have one of the following:
- 3 to 4 ounces of skinless poultry,
- lean beef (sirloin, tenderloin, or roast),
- or seafood (fresh, frozen, or canned, the latter packed in water;
- limit albacore tuna to 6 ounces per week because it contains more mercury than other types);
- or one egg or two to three egg whites.
(After you’ve completed the six-week plan, include a variety of vegetarian protein sources in your diet for a broader spectrum of nutrients.)
Also, have one serving per meal of any kind of fresh or frozen fruits, vegetables, and/or legumes.
2. Snack on a half-cup of unsalted nuts or seeds plus fresh fruit, twice a day.
Yes, nuts are high in fat and calories. But they’re also great sources of protein, fiber, good fats, and antioxidants (to fight wrinkle-causing inflammation)—and, most importantly, they’ll fill you up.
Go for lower-cal nuts like almonds over higher-cal picks like Brazil nuts.
If you finish your last meal more than three hours before bedtime, eat a pre-sleep snack as well. Don’t like nuts or seeds? Try 2 tablespoons of organic nut butter instead.
3. Avoid dairy, soy, and grain products for the first three to four weeks.
These are the types of foods most likely to trigger food sensitivities, which may lead to bloating, low energy levels, and dry, unhealthy skin. “Food sensitivities cause a chronic state of low-grade inflammation that can hurt every system in your body, from your heart to your bones to your skin,” Lydon explains.
Beginning with week four, you can add up to 100 calories per meal of dairy or soy products (e.g., 7 ounces of low-fat milk or 4 ounces of tofu).
And starting with week five, you can also have up to 100 calories per meal of whole-grain-based foods (such as a slice of multigrain bread, 1/2 cup of oatmeal, 1/2 cup of whole-wheat pasta, or 1/3 cup of brown rice), potatoes, or sweet potatoes. If you notice symptoms like bloating after adding any of these foods, cut back again.
4. Cut out processed foods.
It’s best to do without cookies, chips, etc. for the entire six-week plan, and eat them in moderation after that. Why? Processed carbs contribute to inflammation and, thus, aging, Lydon says.
5. Drink 10 to 12 ounces of fluid every time you eat.
Go for water, sparkling water, or iced unsweetened green or herbal tea (add fresh lemon, lime, or berry juice for more flavor) instead of diet sodas. Good news: You can treat yourself to a cup or two of black coffee or tea a day.
6. Pop your vitamins.
Take a daily high-potency multivitamin for overall good health;
- cold-water fish oil (2 to 3 grams twice a day) to fight inflammation, reduce sun damage, and improve skin;
- calcium (350 to 500 milligrams twice a day) to build strong bones;
- and magnesium (200 to 400 milligrams twice a day) to help your body absorb the calcium.
- Also, be sure your multivitamin contains 5 micrograms of vitamin D to help with calcium absorption.

An uncomfortable, empty feeling that may be accompanied by light-headedness or jitteriness caused by low blood sugar levels from lack of food. Binge risk: high.
Your next meal is on your mind. If you don't eat within the hour, you enter dangerous "starving" territory.
Your stomach may be growling, and you're planning how you'll put an end to that nagging feeling. This is optimal eating time.
You're satiated, not full but not hungry either. You're relaxed and comfortable and can wait to nosh.
If you're still eating, it's more out of momentum than actual hunger. Your belly feels slightly bloated, and the food does not taste as good as it did in the first few bites.
You feel uncomfortable and might even have mild heartburn from your stomach acids creeping back up into your esophagus.
"If you live in Australia, the US, the UK, Canada or New Zealand, then you live in the same place as me; Fat City. Fat City of course, being more of a collective mindset, and a culture of eating too much and moving too little, than any geographical location, or ‘literal’ place. And while it’s not a literal place, it is very real. If you know what I mean.The weight of the average Australian increases by about 0.4kg (1lb) per year, every year, and it’s a pretty similar figure in most Western countries. It’s predicted that Australia (where I live) will be a totally obese population by 2050. There’s a thought. What an achievement. This is the forecast, despite the fact that we are now more educated, more informed and more aware, than we’ve ever been before. The truth is, in 2008 we are constantly bombarded with more and more information and education about diet, lifestyle, exercise, obesity, general health and all its variables, yet still, we grow.
As an Exercise Scientist, observer of humanity, and ex-fat bloke, there are plenty of things which fascinate me about living in Fat City (the culture, the habits, the behaviors, the thinking, the excuses, the lies, the marketing, the trends, the media), but here’s my short list:
1. We’ve never be more informed, educated, resourced or equipped to combat obesity, yet we’ve never been fatter. We live in the information age, yet we do nothing with it. I’m amused by those who suggest that obesity is primarily an education problem, when in reality, it is (for the majority) a self-control problem. Self control: yes, that crazy, outdated notion I’ve spoken of many times before. We are inundated with education but we choose not to learn. Real ‘learning’ would have resulted in a large-scale positive change in behavior, and of course, decline in obesity levels. It hasn’t. In fact, if there was a positive correlation between the increase in education and the decline of global obesity, then we would see virtually no obesity at all. But… if we wanted to be cheeky and use ’selective science’ (as many ‘experts’ do), we could actually conclude that the increase in education may have resulted in the increase in obesity. After all, there is a direct relationship: more education, more obesity. Yes I’m being sarcastic, but you understand my point. When it comes to diet and exercise, we know what to do, but we don’t do what we know.
2. I am constantly amazed at our ability (as a society) to complicate the simple. How many more books, programs and breakthrough weight-loss discoveries do we need? Really? Here’s a wacky concept, increase energy expenditure (exercise, general activity) and decrease energy intake (stop eating so much crap). A little scientific I know, but hey, it just might work. Of course it’s simple, but it requires genuine and consistent effort. Simple, of course, not to be confused with ‘easy’. And therein lies the problem. Which leads me to point three.
3. Our obsession with the quick fix. We don’t wanna work for those results. We want someone or something to do it for us. We are precious and lazy. We are addicted to the shortcut. Give me the pill, powder, potion, product or surgeon that will make me beautiful. I am allergic to sweat and hard work it’s so ‘1985′. We are a culture obsessed with ‘easy’ and sometimes creating amazing requires a little effort. Or a lot. And we hate that. Sorry about that. I’ll try and change it.
4. We love playing the ‘blame game’. We would rather justify, rationalize, explain and blame someone or something for our obesity, than take complete responsibility for our fat selves. Of course it’s not our fault. We are poor victims of situations, circumstances and genetics. So not fair. If what we do to our body (lifestyle, food, exercise) is the biggest influence on our level of fitness and fatness (which it is), then obesity is typically the result of poor decision making, rather than poor genetics. Even people with poor genetics can get in great shape, if they work with their genetics and manipulate the variables the right way.
5. I laugh when people get grumpy at me for telling the truth; what they don’t want to hear.“Okay John, it will only take two weeks to lose that hundred pounds and that huge gut you built over the last thirty years, and yes, it will be easy, fun and painless. You will definitely look incredible by next Tuesday. Wednesday, tops. In fact, just leave your body here; I’ll do it for you.”
6. I marvel that people pay thousands of dollars per year to walk/run on a treadmill with a built in TV, radio and fan, when they could get the same physiological benefit (or better) heading out their front door and returning thirty minutes later. No driving to the gym, no petrol costs, no waiting for machines, no travel time.
7. Our inability to finish things. We start jogging. We stop. We go on a diet. We go off it. We join a gym. We go five times. We make resolutions. We don’t follow through. We lose fat. We regain it. We start. We stop. We get fit. We get unfit. We operate on emotion. We always find a ‘reason’ to give up. We experience momentary motivation, but we never truly commit. Real commitment (”I will do this no matter what”) creates life-long change, not temporary weight loss or occasional fitness. We’re great at starting, crap at finishing.
8. The Victim. “But you don’t understand my life, body, time restraints, problems, situation, history, challenges, injuries, medical conditions.” Your problem isn’t your body; it’s your thinking. Get your mind in shape and your body will follow."
Take a baby step: Commit to one change, for only 7 days.
When people begin to focus on their weight loss efforts and their health, they often want to do a complete and immediate overhaul. They want to change everything. They want to switch from having fried and fast foods and a relatively sedentary lifestyle to only eating salads, fruits and vegetables, with running/strength training every day. Additionally, they decide that very day to commit to drinking 8 glasses of water a day, 8 hours of sleep along with taking a mulitvitamin along with 5 other personal goals, and only then, they feel like they're ready to get started. While those all might be good habits, this kind of thinking usually sets you up for failure.
Take on one challenge and start small. Maybe its something like, this week, I will not eat chocolate. Only commit to one thing. If other healthy habits start to take hold, wonderful but for now, only commit one challenge. This usually prevents being overwhelmed and subsequently, saying, I just can't do this. As you begin to master that challenge, write it down daily. Day 1, no chocolate! , Day 2, no chocolate. On day 5, you start to feel really good about your ability to make a positive habit happen and that gives you confidence to tackle the next step. Once you feel like you've mastered that challenge, then you can move on to the next one.
Don't Believe the Myth That You Can and Will Lose 2 pounds a week.
Losing 2 pounds per week, every week, is not the norm for everyone. I've seen people lose a pound a week and actually become disappointed, even if they haven't lost weight in 2 years. They are set on the expectation that they can lose 2 pounds a week and anything less becomes upsetting. Every body is different and one sushi dinner can up the scale by 3 pounds. Often times you'll lose a couple pounds one week, one pound the next week and sometimes you'll gain a pound the following week. What is important is the trend. You didn't gain the weight in a measured fashion of 2 pounds per week, you're most likely not going to lose it in the same way. Recognize the trend and chart your progress week to week to notice the overall loss. I've seen very successful weight loss efforts with diligent plans have an average loss of 5 pounds a month.
I told her [her, being her grandmother] that I was seeing suffering in everyone, that everyone was in pain, and I couldn’t help everyone. I just couldn’t find beauty in anything. I was feeling very overwhelmed.
She looked at me and said, “Honey, God knows there is suffering and pain in the world. However, He created us to see the beauty and joy in His creation. God is big enough to take all the suffering on himself. Just give it over to him every time.”
Then, she went on to say, “I just read a story in my Guidepost. A man was walking the beach after a huge storm had swept hundreds of starfish onto the shore. He saw another man up ahead pick up a starfish and throw it into the ocean. He watched as the man did that several times.
Curiosity got the best of him and we went to talk to the man.
‘What are you doing?’ the man asked the one throwing the starfish back into the ocean.
‘I’m helping them get back into the ocean.’
‘How can you possibly make a difference when there are hundreds on the beach?’
The man picked up a starfish and threw it into the ocean and said, ‘I just made a difference in that one’s life.’
Nana went on to say, “Kristi, it’s God’s job to save the world. You just have to make a difference in someone’s life.”
Popcorn and milk.
A couple or so radishes.
A carrot.
A piece of celery.
Oh, and the hearts of a bunch of celery.
(I was cutting up my radishes, celery, and washing the carrots so fixing lunch would be quicker this week as I'm in for a really busy week.)
I ate some of the baked snack mix that Sam's was passing out samples of. It's 120 calories for 2/3 cup.
I also ate one cookie and drank milk with my popcorn, snack mix, and cookie.
I ate some snack crackers too.
Goodie for me.Caffeine content of well-known national brands include: Coca-Cola (33.9 milligrams), Diet Pepsi (36.7 milligrams), Dr Pepper (42.6 milligrams), Diet Dr Pepper (44.1 milligrams), Diet Coke (46.3 milligrams), Mountain Dew (54.8 milligrams) and Diet Mountain Dew (55.2 milligrams).
By comparison, according to the American Beverage Association Web site, a 12-ounce cup of coffee has between 156 and 288 milligrams of caffeine, and the same amount of tea has 30-135 milligrams.
